How to End the School Power Struggles Without Nagging, Yelling, or Rescuing…
Even when ADHD or anxiety make every assignment feel impossible 😫
Discover how to get your teen to start, finish, and follow through so you finally stop circling the table, repeating reminders, and losing sleep over homework battles.
You’ve done everything you’re “supposed” to - to help your teen do homework and care about school again.
You’ve reminded, reasoned, rewarded, even paid for tutors and therapy. But most nights still end the same way.
Your teen sits at the table scrolling or staring at the screen. You ask once, then again.
They snap, you sigh, and the night unravels into slammed doors or silence. That pit in your stomach whispers, “This can’t be how it’s supposed to be.”
You’re not the problem.
You’re a loving, proactive parent trying to help a teen who feels stuck. What’s failing isn’t your effort, it’s the outdated approach you were taught to use.
Why What You’ve Tried Hasn’t Worked
You’ve checked every parenting box. You’ve made lists, offered rewards, enforced deadlines. You’ve raised your voice, softened it, and even thought, “It’s just faster if I do it myself.”
And still, nothing changes.
Because for teens with ADHD or anxiety, homework struggles aren’t about laziness or defiance. They’re about overload and fear of failure.
Your teen’s ADHD brain doesn’t switch on under pressure the way yours does. When you raise the stakes, their nervous system flips into panic mode. Their brain floods with stress instead of focus, and motivation flatlines.
That’s why reminders become arguments. That’s why lists get ignored. That’s why even therapy or tutoring haven’t touched what happens at home.
You’ve been told to stay on top of it, but no one showed you how to reach your teen before you try to teach them — how to lower the pressure so they feel capable instead of cornered.
The teen brain only builds motivation when it feels calm enough to try. Safety opens the door, structure keeps it steady. When you create both, everything shifts.
Your teen starts earlier, follows through more often, and bounces back faster after mistakes. You stop hovering, start exhaling, and finally see effort instead of excuses.
How You'll Go From Daily Battles to Steady Progress
You don’t need more lectures, reward charts, or willpower.
You need a clear way to calm the homework chaos, help your teen start, and actually see schoolwork finished without nagging, yelling, or sitting beside them all night.
Inside this step-by-step program for parents of teens with ADHD or anxiety, you’ll learn how to:
Motivate without the meltdown - know exactly what to say when your teen says “I’ll do it later” or “I can’t.” Use practical, proven phrases that defuse stress and build motivation so they start and keep going on their own.
Create structure that sticks - simple frameworks that turn big assignments into small wins, replacing frantic, last-minute scrambles with steady follow-through and confidence.
Stay steady when your teen shuts down - use calm language that brings them back from “forget it” moments and stops blow-ups before they take over the night.
Build ownership that lasts - watch your teen check the school portal without prompting, hand in homework on time, and take pride in what they completed instead of what you rescued.
Each video module gives you clear and practical steps — no fluff, no theory, just what works for busy parents looking to stop homework battles and reduce school stress.
You’ll get fillable worksheets, quick exercises, and word-for-word scripts you can use tonight to turn tension into teamwork and create lasting study habits.
And you won’t do it alone.
Join a private community of parents who get it: tired, caring, and ready for real change. You’ll also get live Q and A sessions with me twice each month for personal support and feedback.
Because with the right map and real-time guidance, progress doesn’t take months. It starts the night you try something different and see your teen follow through.
Why This Works (and Why Me)
You have tried it all; new routines, stricter rules, consequences, rewards, therapy, even tutoring, and nothing seems to stick.
That isn't because you're failing, but because most advice was never built for how the teen brain actually works. Your teen’s brain is not motivated by pressure or punishment. Push harder and they shut down faster.
Their wiring runs on calm, not control, on small wins that build confidence instead of fear that fuels avoidance. That is why nagging, grounding, or “just focus” never change the pattern.
When you work with their brain instead of against it, everything shifts.
The fights stop, tension eases, and motivation starts to grow from the inside out. They try again, follow through, and you see effort instead of excuses.
I know this because I've lived both sides.
As a teen, I went from top student and athlete to staring at the same half finished worksheet for hours while my parents stood over me saying, “Just focus.”
I would tell myself I would start after dinner, then watch the clock hit midnight while panic took over. My ADHD brain wasn't lazy, it was overloaded and frozen, but every “Why are you not trying harder?” made me believe something was wrong with me.
And as a parent, I watched my Autistic/ADHD son, bright, funny, and capable, ace tests and still fall apart at homework time.
I tried logic, calm voices, and color coded systems. I thought if I could just stay patient, he would follow through.
But the harder I tried to fix it, the worse it got.
Nothing changed until I stopped correcting and started co-regulating, sitting beside him, listening first, speaking second.
That is when I saw it, his shoulders dropped, his eyes steadied, and the panic passed without a fight.
For nearly twenty years, I've helped parents of teens with ADHD, anxiety, and school avoidance rebuild calm, confidence, and follow through around schoolwork.
When you understand what's really happening under the surface; the wiring, the fear, and the overload, you stop fighting the wrong battle and start winning the right one.
What's Inside
You’re not looking for more theory or another motivational talk.
You want practical, proven tools that make a difference this week - not someday. That’s exactly what this program delivers.
When you join, you get immediate access to every video, worksheet, and resource so you can start turning tension into teamwork right away.
Here’s what’s waiting for you inside:
Four Core Video Modules - Each one breaks down what’s really happening in your teen’s brain and exactly how to respond. You’ll see what to do and what to stop doing so your teen starts taking ownership without constant reminders.
Fillable Worksheets and Quick-Action Exercises - Turn insight into action with tools you can use in real life. These aren’t long lessons, they’re simple prompts that create real change in real moments.
Proven Word-for-Word Scripts - No guessing what to say when your teen says “I’ll do it later” or “You don’t get it.” You’ll have ready-to-use scripts that calm the situation and build cooperation instead of conflict.
Private Online Parent Community - Get daily support from me and other parents who are living this too. Ask questions, share wins, and get coaching in a space that feels safe, practical, and judgment-free.
LIVE Q&A Sessions Twice Each Month - Bring your exact challenges to me in real time and get specific, actionable feedback so you can keep making progress.
BONUSES INCLUDED:
Masterclass on ADHD and Motivation - Learn how ADHD actually affects focus and follow through, and how to use that knowledge to help your teen get unstuck.
Masterclass on Adolescent Substance Use - Understand the link between stress, coping, and experimentation, and how to guide your teen with clarity and calm.
Cheat Sheets and Quick-Reference Tools - Simple one-page reminders that help you handle school resistance, emotional blowups, and executive function struggles without losing your cool.
Lifetime Access to All Program Materials - You’ll always have the tools, videos, and worksheets whenever you need a refresh.
Plus, one full year in my private community with daily support and live coaching calls.
Real Parents. Real Results. Real change.
From Nightly Battles to Calm Consistency
“We used to fight every single night over homework. I’d sit at the table for hours, reminding, begging, and eventually yelling. Two weeks into Aly’s program, my son sat down on his own and said, ‘I’ll start after dinner.’ I nearly cried. He actually followed through, and our house feels peaceful again.” – Lana M.
From Portal Patrol to Peace of Mind
"I used to check the school portal five times a day, terrified he’d miss something. I felt like the homework police. After learning Aly’s tools, I stopped hovering — and he started managing his work without me. He even showed me a completed project before I asked. I finally feel calm.” – Lana M.
From meltdowns to motivation
"My daughter’s anxiety would explode every time she had to start something hard. I used to jump in to calm her or do it for her just to stop the panic. Aly’s approach taught me how to stay grounded and guide her instead. Now she takes a breath, starts small, and finishes on her own. It’s a miracle.” – Erica S.
From procrastination to ownership
"Before this program, my son waited until midnight to even open his laptop. I thought he was lazy. Now I understand how ADHD affects motivation — and how to work with it. He’s starting earlier, finishing faster, and actually proud of himself. The best part? I’m not the reminder anymore.” – Nikki H.
From walking on eggshells to real connection
"Every night felt like a minefield. One wrong word and my teen would shut down or blow up. Aly helped me change how I communicate so we both stay calm. Homework still happens, but without the emotional explosions. We talk, we laugh, and our relationship feels stronger than ever.” – Jen P.
From exhausted to empowered
"I’d tried everything — tutors, therapy, charts — and still ended every night in tears. This program gave me clear, practical steps that actually work. I’m not fixing or rescuing anymore, and my teen is finally taking responsibility. For the first time in years, I believe we’re going to be okay.” – Sherry K.
How to End the School Power Struggles will teach you how to...
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Motivate Without Nagging
Watch your teen take ownership of their responsibilities, easing your constant reminders.
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Build Confidence to Thrive
Help your teen manage their workload and reduce overwhelm—even with ADHD or anxiety in the mix.
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Build Connection, Less Conflict
Strengthen your bond and shift from conflict to collaboration for a more peaceful home.
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Lower Stress, More Success
Break free from the power struggles and watch your teen make steady progress.
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Understand ADHD & Anxiety
Break free from the power struggles and watch your teen make steady progress.
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